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Filed Under: Personal & Life Updates 92 Comments

So. This is happening:

Ultrasound-Photo (1 of 1)

I am pregnant again.  I made it to my second trimester this time.

13 weeks, 3 days.

33.8% complete.

3.1 months pregnant.

We are excited, nervous, anxious, and hopeful. (And I’m getting sick a lot.)

I was going to wait until I felt 100% confident and excited to share the news, but I’m realizing that probably won’t happen for 6 more months when there’s a baby in my arms.

It’s been a road harder than I would have hoped; full of heartache, tears, and now, I’m hoping, our happy ending.

The hope is starting to overcome the fear.  I’m so very grateful.

A baby in June.

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  1. Jamie says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:29 pm

    Ashley! I’m so happy for you! I hopehopehoped this is what it was going to be when I clicked through from twitter :)

    Sending you so much love! xoxoxoxo.

    Reply
  2. Holly says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:39 pm

    I’m SO happy for you!!! You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers!

    Reply
  3. Karinny says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:57 pm

    ME TOO! I can’t even believe it yet! I am also having my first baby in June! Thanks for being such an inspiration on parenting and living a simple life! I can’t wait to read about your experience too :)

    Reply
  4. Melinda says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:17 pm

    I’m so happy for you! <3 <3 <3

    Reply
  5. Sheila says

    December 16, 2013 at 4:21 pm

    OMG! I got teary-eyed reading this. I’m praying for the best for you and your pregnancy :).

    Reply
  6. Christina says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:27 pm

    Oh, Ashley, I’m so happy for you! I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers for the next few months. What wonderful news!

    Reply
  7. K says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:29 pm

    I just got chills and clutched my necklace. Oh, how I am elated for you. My goodness I’m happy.

    Reply
  8. mellowinthemidwest says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:31 pm

    so so happy to read this news!!! unfortunately, the great exhale will likely not come until there’s a live baby in your arms, but things will feel progressively more sure through the pregnancy from my experience. Baby movement helps greatly (at least with me), and each milestone and week reached…so so happy for you!! EE!!!! It’s happening! YAY!

    Reply
  9. Maria says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    Oh, congrats!!

    Reply
  10. Melissa says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:33 pm

    Beyond happy for you guys…. I am trying really hard not to cry again, and I’m not a cry-er, so you know it’s affected me a lot. Continuing to send love & healthy baby thoughts your way. :)

    Gabe is going to be an awesome big brother! I cannot wait for you to know the Heart Explosion that comes when you see them together.
    xoxo

    Reply
  11. Reading (and chickens) says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:33 pm

    So, so happy for you all!

    Reply
  12. Katherine says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    I’d actually noticed that things had been quiet on this topic for a while and I didn’t want to ask about it in case of jinxing things.

    Amazingly excited for you though and I can’t wait to follow your journey. I’m especially excited to hear about Gabe’s reactions!

    Reply
  13. Abby says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:36 pm

    Congratulations! So happy for you.

    Reply
  14. Renee says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:38 pm

    A million congratulations to you all!!

    Reply
  15. Rebecca | Seven2Seven8 says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:42 pm

    Ashley, I am so happy for you! Congratulations! I think, once you know how fragile and precious this all is, you never can take it for granted, and I’m sad for you (and anyone else for whom this doesn’t come easily) that you can’t “just sit back and enjoy it blithely” (for ignorance really can be blissful), but I am so thrilled that things are sticking for you and wish you a happy and healthy second and third trimester, and happy and healthy baby in June! xo

    Reply
  16. doniree says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:52 pm

    AH! Congratulations! I am so, so excited for you (and Mike and Gabe!)! :)

    Reply
  17. Jessica says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:56 pm

    Awww! This is so exciting! Congratulations! (I’ve only been around for a few months, so hello!) I’m now thinking all of the best (baby-health-specific) thoughts for you and yours.

    Reply
  18. Ginger says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:57 pm

    Oh, happy news! Congratulations!

    Reply
  19. a/k/a Nadine says

    December 16, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    Yay! Yay! Yay! Happy news (and happy sniffles)! Congrats.

    Reply
  20. Anne says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:02 pm

    Oh, Ashley, I just did a fist pump in my living room. Congratulations!!

    Reply
  21. Jenna says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:03 pm

    Congratulations!! So exciting!

    Reply
  22. Managed Chaos says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:04 pm

    This post…makes my heart smile for you. Congrats!

    Reply
  23. Becca says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:06 pm

    Praise God for this miracle!

    I am SOOOO thrilled for you and praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery.

    No one is more deserving!

    Reply
  24. Margaret says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    What wonderful news! Congratulations!

    Reply
  25. Amanda says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:09 pm

    So happy for you and your family! You and your sweet baby are in my prayers :)

    Reply
  26. Erin says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:11 pm

    Oh, Ashley. I am so happy for you. I had a friend who went through multiple miscarriages and she said the exact same thing. “I won’t be confident about this pregnancy until the baby is in my arms.” I’m so happy for you. I hope you’ll get to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy.

    Reply
  27. Stacey says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:14 pm

    SUCH AMAZING NEWS! I have goosebumps! Congratulations, sweet lady. I can’t think of anything more amazing and heart warming than this. You’ve been through so much. Sending you so much love and light and wishes for a happy, healthy pregnancy.

    Reply
  28. Lacey Bean says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:15 pm

    YAYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply
  29. Laura says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:20 pm

    That baby came to the Farm!! How exciting Ashley! We will be praying for you all!

    Reply
  30. Ris says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:21 pm

    Squeeee!! Congratulations!!

    Reply
  31. BakingSuit says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    Such delightful news! Congratulations and best wishes

    (One of my co-workers just looked in my office to see why I clapped as they walked by. Nosy Nelly.)

    Reply
  32. Kathleen says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    Yaaaaaayyyy!!! I’m so excited for you, Ashley. I will be praying for you and this little one!

    Reply
  33. Katie says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:38 pm

    YEA! I am so happy for you. I know you’ve been through a lot in the last year and I’m so glad to hear that a little sibling for Gabe is on the way. Congratulations and best wishes!

    Reply
  34. lisacng @ expandng.com says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:41 pm

    Congratulations! What wonderful news. Wishing you lots of good health!

    Reply
  35. katelin says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:54 pm

    welp this just made my day so much better. so so very excited for you and the family Ashley!!! sending all the excitement and happy tears and big hugs your way, weeeee! xo

    Reply
  36. Tori says

    December 16, 2013 at 1:55 pm

    Congrats Ashley! So excited for you and your family!

    Reply
  37. Sarah says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:03 pm

    Congrats dude :) I’m just a few days ahead of you (yay!!!). We’ve got a few bumps ahead to get through but hoping for good things for us both this time around.

    Reply
  38. Julia says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:05 pm

    How wonderful! Congrats!

    Reply
  39. Holly says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:08 pm

    Congrats! Wishing you a healthy and safe pregnancy.

    Reply
  40. Vee says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:09 pm

    Congratulations and best wishes…what a lovely way to start the festive season!

    Reply
  41. shelly@ohshellsbells says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:10 pm

    this post gave me goosebumps. very happy for your family! A close friend of mine just told me she was pregnant last Friday! So much good news this holiday season!

    Reply
  42. Sarah says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:11 pm

    Congratulations!

    Reply
  43. Katherine says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:18 pm

    What awesome news for you all! That’s so exciting. I hope you have plenty of moments of pure joy, with the nervousness on pause:) Hooray!!!

    Reply
  44. HereWeGoAJen says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:21 pm

    Hooray, hooray, hooray!

    Reply
  45. Jayme says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:35 pm

    Is it weird that I cried when I read this!? What amazing, fantastic, fabulous news. I started reading your blog when you were still pregnant with Gabe and I’ve read along through all your struggle recently. There is no one more deserving of this sweet little babe than your family. Congratulations Ashley!!!

    Reply
  46. Gina says

    December 16, 2013 at 2:47 pm

    Oh my goodness! I am so so happy for you and your family! Major congrats! <3

    Reply
  47. heidikins says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:03 pm

    Eeeep!! Congrats!

    xox

    Reply
  48. Rachel says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    Whew… I’ve been wondering and praying. Will be praying. Much love your way!

    Reply
  49. Betsy says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    Ashley, what wonderful news! I am so happy for you and your family! Congratulations!

    Reply
  50. Hilary says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:23 pm

    Ashley that is such AWESOME NEWS!!! :) **happy dance***

    Reply
  51. Elizabeth says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:35 pm

    Oh, yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am soooooo happy for you. This is just the BEST news. Junebabies are the best best best. :)

    Reply
  52. Kelly says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:43 pm

    YAYYYYYYY! I had a major feeling about this- I seriously have pregnancy-dar right now, it’s weird. Every time it popped into my mind I was like PLEASE let the first time she mentions this be it’s good news and not sad news. So YAY! So so happy.
    I’m sending lots of hope your way and it’s okay to not feel confident until you have a baby in your arms :) Week 14 was a turn around point for me sickness wise, so I’m going to hope it is for you too!

    Reply
  53. OHmommy says

    December 16, 2013 at 3:55 pm

    Yay!!!!!!!!

    Reply
  54. Eva says

    December 16, 2013 at 4:06 pm

    Congratulations!!! I’m so happy for you all:)

    Reply
  55. Jamie Lynn says

    December 16, 2013 at 4:13 pm

    So happy for you!! I can’t imagine how excited you must be, especially after all you’ve been through!

    Reply
  56. howie says

    December 16, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    auh, congratulations to you and mike and gabe. keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers

    Reply
  57. Michelle W says

    December 16, 2013 at 4:31 pm

    I may have just started crying!! SO happy for you guys!!!!

    Reply
  58. Sarah Anne says

    December 16, 2013 at 5:49 pm

    Oh ASHLEY! I am so happy for you and your family. I know only some of your struggles, but am thrilled for you.

    Reply
  59. callina says

    December 16, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    Oh my goodness, congratulations!! I am soooo happy for you! 2014 is going to be an exciting year for you and your family! Yay!

    Reply
  60. Rachael says

    December 16, 2013 at 7:09 pm

    Congratulations to you and your growing family!!

    Reply
  61. Mary Frances says

    December 16, 2013 at 7:41 pm

    Yay! Congratulations! I’m also due in June after miscarrying this summer, so I understand the relief of making it to the second trimester :)

    Reply
  62. Rachel says

    December 16, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    my heart is just so full for you. i adore you and this is just the most perfect little portrait of a gorgeous baby ever. thinking of you guys and hoping for a very smooth six more months!! xoxo

    Reply
  63. Katie says

    December 16, 2013 at 8:28 pm

    SOOOOOO excited!!!! :)

    Reply
  64. Keri says

    December 16, 2013 at 8:55 pm

    Huge smile here! I’m praying for your happy ending!

    Reply
  65. Stevie says

    December 16, 2013 at 9:08 pm

    Oh! This brought tears to my eyes. So excited for you and your family, Ashley. Especially after such a tough road this past year. Congratulations!

    Reply
  66. Becky says

    December 16, 2013 at 9:25 pm

    Yes yes yes yes!!!! So happy for you!!! xoxoxoxoxo

    Reply
  67. thatShortChick says

    December 16, 2013 at 9:29 pm

    I am so delighted for you!!! wishing you, mike, and gabe so much love and peace!!!

    Reply
  68. Ashlie says

    December 16, 2013 at 9:33 pm

    Everyone has already said what I am feeling, but so so happy for you lady!!! Congrats!!! I will keep you in my prayers for a safe and healthy pregnancy for you and the baby!

    Reply
  69. Miranda says

    December 16, 2013 at 9:46 pm

    Oh my goodness I am soooo happy for you! I had happy tears in my eyes as soon as I saw this! Sending all sorts of happy thoughts and prayers your way!

    Reply
  70. Kaity says

    December 16, 2013 at 10:40 pm

    So many prayers for you on this wonderful journey!!!

    Reply
  71. Courtney says

    December 17, 2013 at 12:17 am

    Congrats! You don’t know me but. . . (how many comments start that way?) okay I’ll skip the part where I say how long I’ve been reading your blog and feel guilty for never commenting before and just jump straight to the part where I say that you are a fabulous writer and photographer and your son is adorable and I’m working on commenting more on blogs I read. That said, wow! So very excited for you and your family. What a spectacular announcement!

    Reply
  72. Sylvie says

    December 17, 2013 at 3:51 am

    So happy for you! Every time I saw a new post of yours popping up, I was really hoping you’d have good news! :-)

    Reply
  73. Megan @ Mama Bub says

    December 17, 2013 at 9:42 am

    This makes me so happy, as do all of the excited comments!

    Reply
  74. Michelle says

    December 17, 2013 at 10:42 am

    What wonderful, wonderful news.

    Reply
  75. Erin says

    December 17, 2013 at 12:47 pm

    Congratulations, Ashley! So happy for your little family :)

    Hang in there with the sickness, it seems like it takes longer to feel better with the second. Papaya enzyme helped a lot for me.

    Reply
  76. Laura says

    December 17, 2013 at 1:40 pm

    Congratulations to you, Ashley!

    Reply
  77. Laura says

    December 17, 2013 at 1:41 pm

    Congratulations, Ashley!

    Reply
  78. Sarah says

    December 17, 2013 at 2:09 pm

    Congrats! Congrats! A million times congrats! Eeeeeeeeeee! So thrilled for you & your family! <3 Hope you start feeling better soon!
    XOXOXOXO

    Reply
  79. Elizabeth says

    December 17, 2013 at 2:15 pm

    I’m just beaming and so, so glad you feel terrible. Well, not that you feel terrible, but that you have cause to feel terrible! This is going to be one cherished baby. I hope the coming months bring you peace. I am so happy for you and cannot wait to see pictures of Gabe as a big brother.

    Reply
  80. Jesabes says

    December 17, 2013 at 3:20 pm

    Congratulations and all the best wishes in the world:)

    Reply
  81. lindsay says

    December 17, 2013 at 6:41 pm

    Hope and joy and happy tearing up for you. Congratulations!

    Reply
  82. Allison @ With Faith and Grace says

    December 17, 2013 at 7:58 pm

    I’m pretty sure the Internet just exploded in hope, joy and LOVE for the three — er, four! — of you! Congratulations! Sounds like you have a very happy New Year ahead of you. :)

    Reply
  83. Kate says

    December 17, 2013 at 11:14 pm

    SO excited for you!!! :) Yay! Gabe will be such an awesome big sibling :)

    Reply
  84. Aileen Johnston says

    December 18, 2013 at 7:02 am

    Oh I am so happy for you!!! I was the same as you. I had multiple miscarriages so I did not/could not relax the whole time I was pregnant as I kept waiting for something bad to happen. However it didnt and I now have a gorgeous 17 month old little girl. Hope everything goes smoothly and I cannot wait to read how your pregnancy progresses xxxx

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  85. Simply Life says

    December 18, 2013 at 8:58 am

    CONGRATS!

    Reply
  86. Nilsa @ SoMi Speaks says

    December 18, 2013 at 11:51 am

    Super exciting, Ashley. Big congrats. I give you a lot of credit for knowing what you and Mike want out of life and sticking to your plan, even when life diverts you a few times. I know it took a lot of courage to come to this place and make your announcement. I know your excitement is tempered, but surely the veil lifts a little bit each day. Hope trimester #2 provides you some relief from feeling so ill.

    Reply
  87. Rae says

    December 19, 2013 at 12:18 pm

    Congratulations! I am so very happy for you! I hope that you are soon feeling better both physically and with anxiety. I know, I know, that last one is a big hope, but that’s what hope is for, right? :-)

    Reply
  88. Emily says

    December 19, 2013 at 10:26 pm

    Congrats!

    Reply
  89. Nadiah says

    December 19, 2013 at 11:10 pm

    Wonderful, wonderful news! Congratulations!

    Reply
  90. Misty says

    December 19, 2013 at 11:26 pm

    Congrats, congrats!! So happy for you guys!

    Reply
  91. Melinda says

    December 25, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    Oh, how wonderful! I’ve been a reader for a long time but rarely comment. This news is comment worthy!

    Reply
  92. natasha says

    January 4, 2014 at 1:48 pm

    Just seeing this, big congrats!

    Reply

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