• Home
  • About
  • Little Leaf | My Web Design Business
  • What do you want to do?
    • Project 333 – Capsule Wardrobe
    • Understand what miscarriage is like
    • Read a pep talk
    • Travel to Puerto Rico
  • Contact
    • Advertise & Disclosure
  • Twitter
  • Instagram

Our Little Apartment

Less Stuff, More Life.

  • Minimalism & Decluttering
    • How I Learned to Stop Being a Slob and Started Cleaning up After Myself.
    • Decluttering, Cleaning, and Saving Money in the New Year.
    • Why I Want to be A Minimalist.
    • How to Determine When You have Enough Stuff.
    • On A Bit of Minimalist Travel // Why & How to Pack Lighter.
    • How Routines Have Made My Life Better.
    • A Tiny Christmas.
    • Why I Take a Social Media Break.
    • Or Do Without.
    • All posts about minimalism & decluttering
  • Saving Money
    • My Cleaning & Meal Planning Routines.
    • How and Why We Budget.
    • Doing a Buy Nothing Month.
    • Choosing between Convenience and Values.
    • Frugal Tips
    • 6 Ways We Save Money on Groceries.
    • My Favorite Little Ways to Save Money.
    • Being a One Car Family, Part 1.
    • Being a One Car Family, Part 2.
    • All posts about frugality & saving money
  • Green Living
    • Cloth Diapering
    • 9 Ways I'm Going to be Greener at Home.
    • How to Eat Less Meat
    • Green Living: What I Use to Clean.
    • Airing my Clean Laundry.
    • Still Shampoo Free.
    • All posts about green living & sustainability
  • Motherhood
    • Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss
    • Pregnancy Updates
    • Gabe's Birth Story
    • Theo's Birth Story
    • Everything You Need to Know about Babywearing.
    • Sleep Training Success without (Many) Tears.
    • On Careers and Ladders and Motherhood.
    • Answering Questions: Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood
    • Anxiety, Committment, and Childbirth, Oh My!
    • All posts about motherhood & parenting
  • Career & Business
    • Tools I Love for Administrative Tasks & How I Use Them.
    • How I Organize Tasks & To Do Lists.
    • My Freelance-aversary & Some Thoughts on Making Your Life What You Want.
    • How I Make Money Online.
    • Why I Use the Genesis Framework.
    • Why I Love Redbooth for Project & Task Management
    • Working from Home Tips & Time Management Strategies.
    • How Does She Do It All? She Doesn't.
    • Working Mama // Figuring Out Child Care.
    • Reader Question: Discerning A Career Path.
  • Travel
    • Our "Workcation" at the Outer Banks.
    • Traveling with a Babe.
    • Costa Rica and Puerto Rico Visit, Part 1 | Lazing about at a resort
    • Puerto Rico, Part 2 | Eating our Way Through Old San Juan
    • Where to Stay & What to Eat in Puerto Rico. (Part One)
    • What to Do & See in Puerto Rico. (Part Two)
    • Anatomy of a Mini Getaway.
    • Western Massachusetts
    • Toronto, Canada
  • Search
Personal & Life Updates

January Update & A February Intention.

Filed Under: Personal & Life Updates 17 Comments

[January Goals Revisited]

Fix all 500 broken links and reorganize my blog  |  Done! Some links were broken from moving over, but a lot were old blog posts with links to now-defunct blogs and such. And I’ve added some pages and changed up the navigation in the side and top bar to help direct new readers who want to explore my blog. I’m still working on finishing the frugal living page, but I’m really pleased with the way it all came together by using similar font faces and a color palette, along with some of my own photography. I hope it’s easier to explore and for visitors to find what they’re looking for!

 

Move all Disqus comments over | IMPOSSIBLE. I have many feelings about this, but I am mostly mad at Disqus for being stupid (how eloquent of me). If you wan to get into the boring details – I could move them all over if I wanted to install the Disqus commenting system on this blog, but I do not, so I will not. Now that Blogger has threaded comments, I urge you not to install Disqus.

Figure out how to pay taxes for my business  |  Paperwork has been mail to register my business name, get my vendor’s license, and register as a sole proprietorship. Yay?

Buy nothing this month | While we did go out to eat for a few meals this month, we only when it was part of a social outing with friends, not just by ourselves. And our grocery bill was way more than usual ($420!) this month. But the only things we bought were some needs – a modem for our new cable internet and a headlight for our car. No clothing and no trips to Target (AT ALL. This is the first month in ages where I haven’t been to Target!). Some days, I’d feel an itch to just go somewhere, and I’d have a hard time thinking of what to do that didn’t involve Target. Gabe and I went to the library a few times to remedy my ‘must get out of this hoooouuse’ issues without spending money. In sum, it was a good exercise in realizing how retail therapy has snuck back into my life.

[February Intention]

Do one thing at a time | In the spirit of single-tasking, this will be my only goal this month. I am the queen of starting twenty different things and getting distracted constantly. A typical afternoon goes something like this: throw in a load of laundry, start a batch of cookies, check my email, start to respond, open Google Reader, start to read a blog post, check Twitter, click on a link, start to read the article, click back to the email inbox, Gabe demands attention, leave the computer, play with Gabe, go back to the computer and pull up a TV show on Hulu, while I’m waiting for the video to load, click on Google Reader again…and that’s just ten minutes.

It’s better for my productivity and sanity to start something, focus on it, and finish it. To check my email and respond three times a day, instead of constantly monitoring my inbox and getting distracted. To sit down and write an entire blog post without clicking around on the internet and getting discouraged about my own blog.

This doesn’t mean I won’t multitask in harmless ways – I’ll still watch The View while I’m cleaning the kitchen. I’ll still read my book while I’m brushing my teeth. I’ll still listen to podcasts while I go for a run. These types of multitasking are enjoyable, and don’t detract from my ability to focus.

Also, I’ll be deactivating my Facebook account and staying off Twitter for 7.5 weeks starting February 22 (aka: during Lent), which will help with the crazy-distracted-internet-browsing. I did it with Twitter last year and it was wonderful, but I’ll be honest, I’m a little terrified. But more about that later this month.

Here’s to a mindful February.

What are your goals or intentions for the month? Do you find that multitasking is good or bad for you personally?

Share this:

  • Click to share on X (Opens in new window) X
  • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
  • Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window) Email
  • More
  • Click to share on Pocket (Opens in new window) Pocket
  • Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window) Reddit
  • Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window) Tumblr
  • Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window) Pinterest

Related

February 1, 2012 · Tagged With: internet, monthly goals 17 Comments

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to Our Little Apartment and receive notifications of new posts by email.

About Ashley

More about Ashley >>

Comments

  1. Melissa says

    February 1, 2012 at 10:59 am

    Looks like you had a fantastic month of January! Way to go girl, can’t wait to see how Feb treats you :)

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:19 am

      Hope you have a great month, too!

      Reply
  2. Becky says

    February 1, 2012 at 11:03 am

    I think it’s awesome you’re giving up twitter and facebook for Lent! And your “one thing at a time” goal for February sounds wonderful!

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:16 am

      I’m REALLY excited about that, actually.

      And not doing too well at one thing at a time. Maybe I’ll figure it out by the END of the month? ;)

      Reply
  3. Allison Blass says

    February 1, 2012 at 11:29 am

    When I did freelancing, taxes were the worst. All I can say is: make sure you pay quarterly or at least take out money from each paycheck and save it in an account. I actually never registered a business name in New York, though I did in Oregon, but found I could pay taxes just using my social security number which was easier since it was just me, and I didn’t have a huge business that I was keeping separate. Good luck with taxes!

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:16 am

      Thanks for the advice – it’s all a bit confusing! I’m planning to just do annual taxes with our normal tax return, too.

      Reply
  4. Mrs 1st Lt says

    February 1, 2012 at 11:38 am

    how do you deactivate FB without deleting? this would be SO GOOD for my soul slash life, but i didn’t realize you could go halfsies?

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:12 am

      Yes! It will save everything. Awesome, right?

      Reply
  5. Suburban Sweetheart says

    February 1, 2012 at 2:07 pm

    I’m so frustrated about the Disqus thing on your behalf – and on mine, if I ever want to get rid of Disqus, which I do! I hate it, I hate that it doesn’t work on mobile phones, & I just want to KEEP all my comments… but I’m scared to try to port them into my blog, if that’s even possible. :/

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:14 am

      I know. It’s really frustrating. Grrr. You can Google about it and see if anyone’s had any luck!

      Reply
  6. Ashley says

    February 1, 2012 at 2:09 pm

    In order not to go crazy while multi-tasking, I’ve learned that I have to disconnect my computer from the internet. If I don’t a slip down the rabbit hole and get nothing done.

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:15 am

      I’ve totally done that before! And in college, I would go to coffee shops that didn’t have internet just so I wasn’t tempted. Addiction, I tell ya!

      Reply
  7. San says

    February 1, 2012 at 2:12 pm

    You stayed away from Target for a WHOLE month!? You’re so disciplined! :) (Can you tell, I have a Target addiction, too? Who doesn’t?) ;)

    I think you did really well in January and I am very much intrigued by your FB and Twitter hiatus for Lent… although, I might miss you on Twitter! I do think it’s a good idea to step away every once in a while…. I have this crazy multi-tasking problem too and I should do something about it.

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 1, 2012 at 5:45 pm

      I did! I know, it’s sort of a miracle, actually. Though I spent enough there in December to balance things out. ;)

      Reply
  8. Ashlie says

    February 1, 2012 at 7:28 pm

    I totally feel ya on the multitasking craziness. Facebook and Hulu have been the death of my studying time. Ross noticed, (as he lay his head on my chest while reading over my shoulder) that my heart began racing at the idea of giving up social networking sites for Lent. But I have to say, FB is my biggest addiction, next to my too many t.v. shows, and either would be a good sacrifice to my daily schedule. I need the will power!

    P.S. I really want a blog make-over this spring and totally want to talk to you about your services! You were recommended to me by a complete stranger! I said, “Hey, I know her in real life!” ;) You are practically famous in the blogging world. :)

    Reply
    • Ashley // Our Little Apartment says

      February 4, 2012 at 11:12 am

      Haha! Just deactivate Facebook for two weeks and see what you think. It certainly won’t kill you, right?

      And how crazy that someone recommended me. Awesome!

      Reply
  9. Nilsa @ SoMi Speaks says

    February 6, 2012 at 11:17 am

    As a reader, I absolutely HATE Disquis. I hate anything that requires you to register (to that level) to make commenting easy. I hate that so many blogs default to automatically signing you up to follow all comments (I don’t blame the blogger – I assume it’s how Disquis is set up unless the blogger changes it). And there are other reasons not coming to mind now why I hate Disquis. Needless to say, there have been countless times I have chosen not to comment due to the Disquis system. Thank you for removing it from your blog. I love you a little more.

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Hey, I'm Ashley & this is my blog

web designer · vegetarian · coffee addict · obsessed with goal-setting · imperfect mother · wife to an academic · wannabe minimalist

I blog about these things and our attempts to live a simpler, greener life in a small city in Massachusetts.  More>>

Get my posts via email!

Enter your email address to subscribe to my blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Instagram

Follow on Instagram

Most Pinned Posts:




Search

About Ashley

Read More…

Saving Money & Living Frugally

Doing a Buy Nothing Month.

Every so often, my eating junk food gets a little out of control and do a little juice cleanse. To help reset my body’s ideas of … [Read More...]

All Saving Money & Living Frugally Posts >>

Simple Living & Minimalism

Long Distance Moving and Decluttering – A Few Tips.

We're in the midst of a long distance move to Massachusetts this month (in the nomadic portion of our move - we moved out of our … [Read More...]

All Simple Living & Minimalism Posts >>

Green Living & Sustainability

Choosing between Convenience and Values.

A reader asks: How do you decide when to focus your energy on better choices versus choosing convenience? I think it can be so … [Read More...]

All Green Living & Sustainability Posts >>

Motherhood & Parenting

The Story of Eleanor.

(Warning, this post will contain mentions of bodily fluid) How Eleanor Came to Be. I want to write this all down while I still … [Read More...]

All Motherhood & Parenting Posts >>

Career & Business

A New Leaf. Little Leaf.

(Yes, I am a dork.) Your website should be like an extra employee. Who works non stop 24/7. I recently overhauled my site … [Read More...]

All Business & Career Posts >>

Recipes

Recipe: Curried Greens and Chickpeas

Recipe: Vegetarian Ramen.

Recipe: Sweet and Sour Tempeh with Pineapple and Cashews.

Recipe: Tofu Lettuce Wraps.

Recipe: Bistro Broccoli Chowder

All recipes >>

Copyright © 2025 · Our Little Apartment Custom On Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in

 

Loading Comments...