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Wake Me Up When November Ends.

Filed Under: Personal & Life Updates 3 Comments

Hello and welcome to my debbie downer corner of the internet. Want to know why I hate this time of year? Pull up a chair. Let me share. (Or click x and escape the sadness.) November 15: The due date for my first miscarriage. A tiny, small part of me still thinks “I’d have aRead the whole post >>

November 20, 2017 · Tagged With: miscarriage & pregnancy loss 3 Comments

Finding Life after Loss.

Filed Under: Personal & Life Updates 16 Comments

Involves new hairstyles, eating my feelings in sugar form, and buying my kids matching clothing. I haven’t been sure what to write about here anymore. I feel like I’m 32, surely I shouldn’t be publicly journaling and sharing my thoughts, right? I’ve grown past that. Need to keep those thoughts and feelings private. And yet.Read the whole post >>

April 12, 2017 · Tagged With: life updates, miscarriage & pregnancy loss 16 Comments

When Your “Rainbow Baby” Dies, Too.

Filed Under: Motherhood, Personal & Life Updates 87 Comments

On July 22nd, I took a pregnancy test. It was 12 weeks to the day after I’d given birth to Clare and still no period, so I wanted to be sure. To rule out pregnancy, right? It was negative, as I expected, so I threw it in the trash. A few hours later, I peekedRead the whole post >>

February 13, 2017 · Tagged With: anxiety, miscarriage & pregnancy loss 87 Comments

How to Support a Friend Who’s Lost a Baby.

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Almost five months ago now, I lost a baby at 21 weeks of pregnancy. In the time since, I’ve gone to therapy and support groups and talked with countless other women who’ve lost babies. One thing is in common – support is so key to getting through this. I’ve been already asked how to supportRead the whole post >>

September 23, 2016 · Tagged With: miscarriage & pregnancy loss 13 Comments

It’s Been A While.

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The physician assistant smiles at me. “So tell me about yourself.” “Well, I’m pretty boring, health-wise-“ she laughs. I take a deep breath and try to be breezy, “Except for pregnancy. I have, uh, I had a son and then two miscarriages, then another son, then lost a baby at 21 weeks in April.” Her faceRead the whole post >>

August 16, 2016 · Tagged With: miscarriage & pregnancy loss 12 Comments

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Doing a Buy Nothing Month.

Every so often, my eating junk food gets a little out of control and do a little juice cleanse. To help reset my body’s ideas of … [Read More...]

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Long Distance Moving and Decluttering – A Few Tips.

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Choosing between Convenience and Values.

A reader asks: How do you decide when to focus your energy on better choices versus choosing convenience? I think it can be so … [Read More...]

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The Story of Eleanor.

(Warning, this post will contain mentions of bodily fluid) How Eleanor Came to Be. I want to write this all down while I still … [Read More...]

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A New Leaf. Little Leaf.

(Yes, I am a dork.) Your website should be like an extra employee. Who works non stop 24/7. I recently overhauled my site … [Read More...]

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